Love, Laughter and EVERYTHING in Between: Alicia and Mileak

 

June 13, 2015 was the day Alicia and Mileak

said "I Do".  Their church ceremony was he perfect atmosphere for their love!

What an honor it was to be part of their day

 

 

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Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Love, Laughter and EVERYTHING in Between: Day 4 - Soulmates!

I was having a conversation with my niece and she asked the question, "Can you have more than one soul mate?"  My immediate answer was no because although I feel you can love more than one person, I believe that there is only ONE person that is indeed for you.

According to Wikipedia, A soulmate is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity. This may involve similarity, love, romance, friendship, intimacy, sexuality, sexual activity, spirituality, or compatibility and trust

Do soulmates exist? One would argue that Soulmates are believed to be our “love match”, the other twin of our soul. If you have episodes of yearning and longing, that’s because you haven’t met yet the special someone who can fill up your loneliness. If you have fears, he definitely has ways to subside them. He can put an end to your uncertainty; he spells happiness. Soulmates complement us rather than complete us.

So, the question is, how do you find your soulmate when you have no place to start and you have no hint at whom to look for?

Do you believe in soulmates?

~Until Next time
SimplySHAY

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Wordless Wednesday: "Have the MARRIAGE of your Dreams"

"Live Life Out Loud, On Purpose, and with NO Regrets"
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Wordless WEDnesday: "Hold On? OR Let Go?"

"Live Live Out Loud, On Purpose and with NO Regrets"
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Wordless WEDnesday: "Mardi Gras Inspiration"

Perfect Bound Blog

 

"Live Life Out Loud, On Purpose and With NO Regrets"
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Motivational Monday: "Close To You"

Bobby Womack, a soul storyteller, has paid his dues for a very long time with tragedy and drug addiction before getting his shot at solo stardom.  If you like old music with a message, this old school playah was a consistent hit maker on the RB&B charts during the 60's and much of the 70's.  Long before Jaheim and the others, Womack's high standard of quality control was having couples remember to love long and certainly without end. 

SO, grab your favorite girl/guy and make your way to the dance floor.  Hold them close and live in the moment.

Why do birds suddenly appear, every time you're near?

Just like me, they long to be close to you.

Why do starts fall down from the sky, every time you walk by?

Just like me, they long to be close to you.

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Motivational Monday: "Sweet Summer Days & Blurred Lines"

Imagine the bluest ocean, the sound of a thousand waves,

the rhythm of love as we lay beneath the sun (spending our time)

Spending our time watching clouds go rolling by. 

These are the sweetest day here in your arms.

 

 

School is back in session which means the summer music series is coming to an end.  What song was memorable for you this summer?  As a stepper, I will always love Sweet Summer Days by Peabo Bryson.

To the perfect sunset, walk under starry skies,

holding you close feeling your heart beat next to mine 

 

However,  for the summer of 2013 ~ Everybody get up, WOO!  Robin Thicke's  "Blurred Lines" features rappers T.I. and Pharrell is the first single from his album of the same name and was released in March of this year.

Did you know:  On July 28, 2013, "Blurred Lines" broke the record for radio audience?  Sure did!!

Good girl
I know you want it
I know you want it
I know you want it
You're a good girl
Can't let it get past me
You're far from plastic
Talk about getting blasted
I hate these blurred lines

"Live & Love"
Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Monday Motivation: "True Love"

After a wedding weekend I'm often feeling "some kind of way".  In addition to EXHAUSTED I love the feeling of love when it's in the air.  That kind of love that involves little dreaming and scheming but breathing relevance into otherwise monotonous moments. That love that makes commuting to work easy because you know that someone cares about what you’re going to have for lunch; understanding that you do not have to be your dynamic, charming, weekend self all the time and it won’t change a thing!   

It's true love, when you say you need me like I need you

And you can't be without me, like I can't be without you

It's true love, when we spend time talkin' on the phone

'Cause when we're not around each other, we don't wanna to be alone

True Love... It should be as contagious as a running nose at a daycare center and catch on like a wildfire and burn until what seems like forever....or until you re-light the flame!

"Live & Love"
Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Monday Motivation: "Live Your Best Life"

When we enter into marriage it is certainly our hope that it will last forever.  Actually, we hope for a couple of forevers.  What to do when forever is suddenly shortened?  Is it really possible to "Love Without End?" 

This past weekend I was doing some Saturday "stuff" which kept me away from FB and more so at the grocery store and then in the kitchen.  After I finished doing all that I needed to do for my family I thought it would be nice to take a nap but had to check FB first to see what was going on around the world.  To my disbelief the first message on the screen was from my niece in law stating that her cousin and good friend of the family, Rev. Bryan Wilson had suddenly passed away.

Although Bryan is gone he left here sharing a couple of  "forevers" with the love of his life.  Bryan and Robyn have been married for 25+ years and were living their best life vacationing together in the Bahamas.  R.I.P Bryan.... continue to Love Without End Robyn!

'Cause if your love was all I had in this life

Well that would be enough until the end of time

So rest your weary heart and relax your mind'

Cause I'm gonna love you girl until the end of time

"Live & Love"
Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

WEDnesday Love: "Butterflies and New Beginnings"

During wedding season you've probably seen people throw rose petals or blow bubbles when a newlywed couple exits the wedding ceremony. A fun and beautiful alternative to the above traditions is to have guests release butterflies after the nuptials.  Butterflies symbolize new beginnings, so a butterfly release is a magical way to symbolize a marriage.

Not sure when to release the butterflies?  They can be released in one of two ways, an individual release or a mass release. For the individual release, each butterfly is in a small, secured box and as the couple exits the ceremony site, each guests opens a box and releases a butterfly. For the mass release, the butterflies are held in a large box or container and when instructed, someone will open the box and all of the butterflies will be released. This is typically done by the bride and groom.

Butterflies can be ordered from a variety of companies.  Here are a few possible places to order butterflies:

• Swallow Tails Farms – They offer monarch butterflies. While they recommend ordering as soon as possible, they are sometimes able to accommodate last minute orders.
• Amazing Butterflies – They offer monarch butterflies and painted ladies.
• Butterfly Release Company – They also offer monarch butterflies and painted ladies. Last minute orders are accepted.

Tips for Releasing Butterflies

• When you receive the package, replace the ice pack with a frozen one. This will keep the butterflies dormant.
• An hour before you want the butterflies to fly, take the boxes out of the insulated shipping box. This gives the butterflies time to wake up.
• When choosing the type of butterfly, know that painted ladies will linger after being released while monarchs will fly away quickly. However, the monarchs are twice the size of painted ladies.

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Monday Motivation: "A Couple of Forevers"



 

Like many of us, Chrisette Michele isn't asking for much ... just “A Couple of Forevers.”   Shot in Savannah, Georgia and directed by Derek Blanks this sultry song is perfect for that walk down the aisle, or simply while enjoying a glass of whatever with your forever!  

 

 

I see it clear, my heart is here

We got each other, let’s take it from there

And if I could I’d love you a forever at a time, Oh oh oh

What we’ve been through, no one else knows

Cause all that matters is how far this goes

And it will go until it starts again, oh oh

Just a couple of forevers

A couple of forevers

I’m the only one, you’re the only one

Together till never

Oh I’m talking about forever

Just a couple forevers

Oooh, I’m the only one, you’re the only one

Together till never, never, never

 

 

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

WEDnesday Love: "4th of July Inspiration"

Oh So Beautiful Paper

Handmade by Mellow Yellow Creative

"Live & Love"
Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

WEDnesday Love: "Miller Beach, Indiana"

Looking to get away but not too far?  Plan your next relaxing getaway at Miller Beach, IN.  "The Hampton's of the Midwest", located just 30 miles from Chicago, Miller Beach offers a commanding view of Lake Michigan and the Chicago skyline.  The Dream Retreat and attached Guest House offers he ultimate respite, spa-like quality amenities.

Considering have a beach front wedding?  The Miller Beach Dream Retreat is also available for small, intimate weddings (less than 26-30 guests).

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Live & Love!

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Monday Motivation: Desire Me, Respect Me; Oh, the TEMPtation

To be desired; a sense of longing for a person or object or hoping for an outcome is a powerful emotion. To be tempted is to be inviting or attractive to something or someone and some would say it's an attempt to get someone to do wrong.

"All men are tempted. There is no man that lives that can't be broken down, provided it is the right temptation, put in the right spot."~Henry War Beecher

Every day we are tempted by something; to eat a burger or not? To run the light or wait? To speak or study to be quiet?   Heck, Adam and Eve were tempted in the garden and we see how that went down.  My thought is everyone is capable of all things; I am a firm believer that men need an opportunity and women simply a reason.  However, spare me the thought of "the devil made me do it".  The devil, nor anyone else or anything, forces us to make these bad choices and yield to temptation. Sin is our choice. Temptation is something that we know is wrong, but our flesh wants to do it anyway. 

I've been seeing clips from the upcoming Tyler Perry movie TEMPTATION and also various groups having what they consider open discussions on the topic.  In the movie this one line really has me thinking - "I want to feel alive, I want to feel wanted".  So let's talk about it!

Everyone wants to feel alive, wanted, desired and in the end respected.  Every Thursday many of us watch Olivia and that man have so much fire that it's amazing they are able to show it on regular television.  We all long for the type of fire that happened when love was new.  We've read about it in Shades of Grey, seen it on television and if we're honest, envisioned it in our heads.

Where has this type of passion gone?  Have we gotten so caught up in our day to day lives that we've failed to pay attention?  Have we taken our mates for granted or do we feel so low about ourselves that the first wink turns us on?

Chantelle Taylor-Bittings, wife, mother and owner of Chantelle Bittings, LCPC a Professional Certified Therapist believes that "small changes can yield lifetime results" shares her feelings on the topic.

"I feel that it is easier to focus on who is not stroking your fire rather than reigniting the flame yourself. Fire needs oxygen. Turn to your neighbor and say: Breathe on me!!!"

Afraid to speak openly and honestly on the topic? That's fine, at least be honest with yourself!

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

WEDnesday Love: Dear Valentine!

I remember being in school and sitting up all night individually addressing the Valentine's Day cards to my classmates. I was no different than anyone else at First Lutheran Elementary School; I looked forward to passing out the little cheap cards with suckers or the heart shaped candies attached.  Then there was THE ONE....  Instead of  being addressed to Jimmy, it said "Dear Valentine".  What fun did we have reading all of the little messages and then adding our own twist. Lol. 

Now that I am married with children I no longer buy the packet of cards and put candy on them for a complete class but I do buy one special card and still address it ”Dear Valentine!" Since we now have a family it's important that everyone receives something on this day love is celebrated.  As a couple we make sure the girls receive something from him and I take care of the boys. 

As of this moment, it seems that I forgot how to count because I am NOT prepared for Valentine's Day, 2013. Lucky for me I can whip up a special meal featuring some family favorites and toss in either Rum Balls or Carmel Brownie Cheesecake and I'm back in the winners circle.  The pre Valentine's Day meal consisted of Cream Cheese Crab Stuffed Mushrooms and Crab Melts along with some fried chicken and sides and will post the recipes on tomorrow (2/14).  For Valentine's Day  I'll go ahead and either delight their palettes with Shrimp and Grits or Seared Shrimp with Four Cheese Ravioli in Vodka Sauce! Go ME.....

 

As an added bonus, back in October I released the TIGERESS within and took some Boudoir photos so he will get one of these to look at on a daily basis too. (Giggle)

 

How will you celebrate Valentine's Day?

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.