Love, Laughter, and EVERYTHING in Between: Day 25-Merry Christmas!!

From all of us at Simply Perfect Peace Events and Designs by Shay
MERRY CHRISTMAS, 2014

Sharon Patrice {aka} "Boss Lady"

My Partner and her Partner -The Martin's {aka} "Creative Geniuses "

Deetta {aka} "The Balancer"

Amanda {aka} "The Visionary"

~Until Next Time
SimplySHAY

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Monday Motivation: Loving and Encouraging Words!

Often times in relationships whether they be friendship, marriage or even parenting;  it can be easy to point out all the things that are wrong. Surely, every day isn't sunshine but I'm almost positive that everyday isn't rain.

The challenge and Motivation for this Monday is simply while we are navigating through life change and improve words and I believe we can change and improve life.  "Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in HIS sight".

Think on it - live life loving and encouraging.

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Fasting - The Purpose (Day 4)

So by now we are clear on what fasting is, how it works, the benefits of fasting and just about how long we should commit to it.  Now let's get into the PURPOSE of fasting.  Like I've stated in previous posts we can fast as part of a diet or for spiritual reasons.  A good friend once said that without prayer, you're merely on a diet anyway.  If your sole purpose of fasting is to lose weight then may be only focused on what you don't eat and you're missing out on the revelation that awaits you when you implement prayer. 

However, if you are fasting to lose weight the purpose is simple - to lose weight?  With losing weight you will gain a lot more energy and cut out any health issues that may have arisen due to bad eating habits. 

For the Spiritual fast, ideally, we should spend most of the waking part of a fast period praying, studying and reflecting. The Bible has a great deal to say about both fasting and praying, including commands to fast and pray. The Bible also gives us examples of people who fasted and prayed, using different types of fasts for different reasons, all of which are very positive results. Jesus fasted and prayed. Jesus' disciples fasted and prayed after the Resurrection. Many of the Old Testament heroes and heroines of the faith fasted and prayed. The followers of John the Baptist fasted and prayed.  Many people in the early church fasted and prayed. What the Scriptures have taught us directly and by the examples of the saints is surely something we are to do.

In the society we live in, it's hard to comprehend that fasting is unpopular. People tend to think that every day they need three large meals plus snacks. In a culture of continual feasting, it seems there is no place for fasting! From that standpoint alone, fasting is good for character building—developing self-discipline, commitment, moderation and better eating habits.

"If my people who are called by my name would humble themselves and pray.........." 

Wednesday's Consumption
Breakfast - Banana and Mixed Berries Smoothie
Lunch - Mixed Greens Salad
Dinner - Banana and Strawberry Smoothie

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Fasting - How Long? (Day 3)

Three Day Fast? One Day Fast? Twenty-One Day Fast?  Whenever I begin a fast my goal is............the goal.  However many days that goal is; THAT is what I set out to do.  Isn't that wonderful?!  Now, let me be truthful with you.  In years past, the first day of the fast was wonderful but by day two and three it felt like punishment. 

Know that there is not a set length that makes a Spiritual fast acceptable.  However, there are some general tips that may help you decide on a duration that will work well for you.

In Bible times, fasts were generally one day in length. Judges 20:26 says, "Then all the sons of Israel and all the people went up and came to Bethel and wept; thus they remained there before the LORD and fasted that day until evening. And they offered burnt offerings and peace offerings before the LORD."

Occasionally, fasts in Bible times were three days (Esther 4:16) or even seven days (1 Samuel 31:13). And on three occasions, fasts lasted 40 days: Moses receiving the 10 Commandments (Exodus 34:28), Elijah encountering God (1 Kings 19:8), and Jesus being tempted in the wilderness (Matthew 4). Since these were unusual circumstances, it is normally not recommended for a person to fast for 40 days without medical supervision.

If you are limiting your liquid intake to water, it is important not to fast for more than 1 or 2 days without medical supervision. If you will be drinking juice and water, a longer duration may be considered and most importantly, if this is your first time fasting; it is wise to start with a shorter period of time and work up to fasting for longer durations.

Whatever the time frame you decide, stay the course. It may be difficult in the beginning but the road gets smoother as the days go by and you focus on the purpose.

What is the PURPOSE? We'll hit that on tomorrow..  Until then, "Live Life With No Regrets"

Day 3 Consumption
Breakfast: Grapefruit, Orange, Mango, Celery, Apple JUICE
Lunch:  Grapefruit, Orange, Carot, Cucumber, Apple JUICE
Dinner: Mixed Green Salad with Roasted Chicken


Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Fasting - How it Works (Day 2)

Day 1 was all about the benefits of fasting and writing down your thoughts in a custom "Your Journey's Journal" by Designs by Shay.  Today we'll go more into what fasting entails and one fast in particular.  How many of you fast for either spiritual or dietary purposes?  I'd love to hear your stories. 

What is Fasting?
Fasting, the act of willingly abstaining from all food, drink, or both, for a period of time.  Though it may not be the most practical -- or safest -- diet, some people use fasting as a way to lose weight or to cleanse the body of toxins, although some experts say our bodies are perfectly equipped with organs that already do the job. Most religions use periods of fasting as a means of demonstrating faith and an opportunity for spiritual reflection.
 

What is The Daniel Fast?
The Daniel Fast is the most "popular" fast used by many of faith and is a biblically based partial fast.  In Daniel 1 the Prophet ate only vegetables (that would have included fruits) and drank only water. So from these scriptures we get two of the guidelines for the fast: (1) Only fruits and vegetables (2) Only water as a beverage.  Then in Daniel 10 we read that the Prophet ate no meat nor any precious breads or foods and he drank no wine for 21 days. So from this scripture, we get a third guideline: (3) No sweeteners and no breads.

You may be saying, "OK, no meat, only water, no sugar; but why no bread?"  Another important guideline is drawn from Jewish fasting principles, where no leaven is used during the fast. So that's why yeast, baking powder and the like are not allowed on the Daniel Fast.

When my daughter asked about the eating plan on the Daniel Fast, I simply stated "it is a vegan diet with even more restrictions."

DISCLAIMER:  I am NOT a doctor. Fasting should never bring harm to the body. And if you have concerns, be sure to consult your health professional before going on the Daniel Fast.  Although the Daniel Fast is a very healthy way to eat I suggest a few modifications if you have health issues that need special attention. For example, I just recovered from the Norovirus and am taking antibiotics so I fast until 6pm and eat only chicken and fish. (if any meat at all)   My daughter and niece are athletes (cheerleading) so their eating plan is slightly altered as well

WHAT I HAD ON THIS DAY~
Breakfast - Mango, Orange, Grapefruit, Carrot, Celery JUICED juice
Lunch - Oats, Flax Seed, Banana, Raspberry, Blueberry SMOOTHED smoothie
Dinner - Corn and Potatoes
Late Night Snack- Strawberries, Blueberries, Blackberries..... yummmmmdelish!

~Live Life With NO Regrets
Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

I am NOT my hair.. or am I?

When I was about 25 my moms friend Mrs. Dobbins whom we hadn't seen in years stopped by for a friendly visit.  I've always known her to be clean and fly and this particular day was no different except she was rocking a close salt and pepper cut with no relaxer!  Stop the press...she looked amazing!  Coming from a family with thick tresses, and having done some modeling, a press then a perm was the natural progression for the girls in our family.  At 25 you can about imagine I was right in the middle of the perm phase but quickly decided when I grew up I was going to also be "natural"

Throughout the years I've worn my hair long, black and straight.  Then I got brave during the Halle era and cut it super short.  Having a fantastic hairdresser, I worn a twist out long before I knew it was a twist out.  The hair on my head is durable meaning I could perm it and color it wit no consequences other than..... straight,colored hair.  Then in 2005 my first born was coming out of high school and I realized "I'm grown and enough of this mess" so I got my hair twisted and when it was time to take them out, I opted to cut them out!  I reminded myself that the only thing to it is to do it; put a scarf on my head, went the barber shop and said "fix it".

Since the "big chop" I've worn various styles; both short and long; dark and even blond.  My preference is short because to me it's my best look and I still don't like combing my hair.  "How do you keep your hair looking so nice?"  I wash it on occasion and condition it like it means something to me.  Nothing gets my goat more than hearing people say "A woman's hair is her glory".  Does that only means relaxed long hair? Absolutely NOT..

Ladies, you are NOT your hair but the way you manage your hair is a reflection of YOU...

What did I do? 
I do NOT wash my hair every day.

Daily usage: Coconut Oil and one of these (Cantu Strengthener which prevents breakage before it starts by penetrating and moisturizing hair from the roots to the tips, Carols Daughter, Miss Jessie's, Jamaican Mango & Lime which smells yummy)

Weekly or whenever I think about it it: Wash with Creme of Nature and/or Mane 'N Tail.   Then condition with Real Mayo, Aphogee and Knot Today by Kinky Curly... Then do a hot oil treatment with Doo Gro, Coconut Oil and Mango Butter.  Delish right?  I couldn't agree more!

Styling?
I do NOT comb my hair ever day but sometimes I'll do a two strand twist if I'm bored.  Otherwise it's "this is who I am..." there you have it :)

~Live Life With No Regrets
Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog  "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~  Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..."  You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Wedding Wednesday: Happy Thanksgiving!

Thanksgiving is tomorrow and for some its a great season for a wedding.  While it may be a time for family to celebrate love; hosting a wedding over Thanksgiving has it's pros and cons.

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Although your family may already be traveling and have time off work after Thanksgiving and of course your theme is relatively simply; Thanksgiving is also one of the busiest times for travel and therefore flights may be a little more costly and venues difficult to book.  Unless you live in a warm climate, the weather during November is very unpredictable. 

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Choose a color scheme with browns, oranges, yellows and even reds for that deep earthy touch.  If you haven't had enough traditional Thanksgiving food, incorporate some of them info your meal such as squash, mashed potatoes, turkey and pumpkin.  Being a fan of signature drinks, create a delicious drink using apple cider, cranberry, pear and berry cocktails.

Enjoy this season of Harvest!

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Wedding Wednesday Cocktail: Kinky ShayMOSA!

As we prepare for sweetest day, I thought it would be fun to host a Boudoir Session for ladies to get in touch with their inner tigeress.  I found this lovely liqueur KINKY at a local store and thought why not try it.  Light and tasty, this cocktail is perfect for bridal showers and as a signature drink at your wedding or special event.

This is what I put together and called it a KINKY SHAYmosa!

WHAT
Kinky Liqueur
Orange Juice
Champagne
Strawberries

HOW
Decorate, Pour, Enjoy

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Motivational Monday: Creating Peace...

SIMPLY PEACE.. Your Journey's Journal (creating and maintaining your own personal peace) is a bedside journal for YOUR thoughts and cares. It includes some basic steps to encourage the reader to push past the present situation and see that Peace is yours for the asking. Practicing (maintaining) the Peace that has been created and seeing the rewards of it!

"Peace has to be created in order to be maintained"... this is a very easy statement to type but believe me when I tell you it's hard to practice! When I first started SIMPLY PERFECT PEACE EVENTS, the prayer was to allow the same peace that resides within me -be passed on to others.  I stood on the streets of Tamarack and wondered, how Lord can that be done?  I wasn't always at "peace"; life happens and sometimes it's just not there. 

The first step, and probably the easiest, to acquiring this "peace" was to surround myself with like minded people.  I have a wonderful family and friends of faith that can't be matched.  However, In the process of surrounding myself I also had to let some people go.  When you do a lot of networking, often times you meet people that make frequent withdrawals and few deposits. This began to interrupt my peace and cause me to be angry ..... so bye bye to those people, I wish you well and consider the withdrawals paying it forward :)

The second step, and what I consider the most beneficial, was "studying to be quiet".  Not only was this the most beneficial, it was the most difficult!!!  Four years ago I said to myself.. "self, shut your mouth!"  From home, to work, to all social settings.. Sharon had to sit down and shut up!!!  How in the world can the PEACE of GOD abide when you're always flappin (yes flappin) your gums?  Throughout this process, my fear of speaking openly was conquered and I was able to share with other women of faith the importance of building up and not tearing down (Proverbs 14:1).  From this three journals and two t-shirt were birthed and I'm grateful, thankful and honored that God would use ME to help others.

• Your Journey's Journal - an Inspirational Guide to Fasting
• Simply Shay - A Guide to Planning Peaceful Weddings and Events
• Simply Shay - Creating and Maintaining Your Own Personal Peace
• "I'm Studying....Are You?"  and "Do someone a favor and mind your own business" (tshirts)

The third step is to LIVE life and CHERISH each day as a gift from above.  Yes, I LOVE the Lord.. I LOVE my church.. I LOVE my family..I LOVE my friends of faith, I am also a HOUSEHEAD to the core.  I make no apologizes for who I am and the things that make me ME!  I live to learn, I enjoy seeing people smile, I know being broken is what continues to make me GROW and be strong.

Not acknowledging the so called "haters":  Let PEACE abide "If what you sow you reap in one area.. then why not in this one too... " ~ SimplyShay

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Wedding Motivational Monday: Love The One You're With!

So Jennifer Anniston got engaged; Evelyn got head butted and Will and Jada were on the front page of MSN for long lasting couples.  What really makes a marriage work?  There is no simple answer because marriage is indeed complex!

Friends and Lovers!  Evenutually the kids will grow up and hopefully move out so it's very important to enjoy each other's company.  Laugh, PRAY, touch, have sex.. yes! have sex people.  Make your marriage fun and lively. 

Be Willing To Adapt to Change! You can't be so stuck in your ways that you aren't willing to make some changes when necessary.  Not saying lose yourself but my goodness...Keep adapting to make the marriage work. Success in marriage is more than finding the right person: it is a matter of being the right person. Be open to change and growth.

Choose Your Battles!  So he missed the bag of garbage; so what she didn't wash the dishes.  Quit all the nagging and complaining about things that really dont matter.  In relationships, it is vital that we give respect and reverence. In marriage, it’s a must. 

Forever? For Ever Ever?  Forever is a long time. Treat each other with kindness, encouragement, and challenge. Marriage is the commitment of two people as total persons.

Trust!   No trust, no intimacy. Take some time away from the hustle and communicate.  There are 168 hours and 10,080 minutes each week. The average couple only spends 17 minutes per week in conversation. *-*

Dependency!  Men need to be needed... and Women need to need them!  Marriage is a balance of dependencies. Doesn't mean "needy" and yes there is a difference.  Let him fix the plumbing ladies and guys let her expect you to do it.  If we can't lean and depend on each other then what's the point.  We need to be a mixture of dependent, independent, and interdependent. 

Memories!  When it's all said and done be sure to create lasting memories. 

Do not marry someone you can live with. Marry someone you cannot live without.  You are made to love and to be loved.  Someone said "if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with" HECK NO... life is short so get the one you love and love them without end!

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Favorite Friday Finds: Proper Place Settings

Facebook and Pinterest are excellent ways to keep up with friends, find fabulous recipes and craft ideas.  I've learned that many people are confused when it comes to how to set a place setting at a dinner table. 

Knowing how to properly set a table is information that IMO everyone should know. Learning place setting etiquette will not only help you host a successful dinner party, but it will also give you confidence in social situations because you always know which fork to use and other similar etiquette.

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Wedding Motivational Monday: It's A Journey, not a TRIP!

Marriage certainly can be a trip.  However, it also can be a beautiful journey in which two individuals promise to be there for each other in all walks of life.  On this steering wheel of life two very different souls always have to give their support, concern and trust to bring beauty, charm and smoothness in their relationship.

In this journey of growth and love, nothing is about ‘you’ or ‘me’; everything is about ‘we’. Success can be of one, but celebration is for both. Problems can be of one, but the solution will have to be by both. This is the beauty of this relationship that’s supposed to be maintained by mutual efforts of both.

All important decisions are to be taken mutually because each and every decision will influence both the lives equally. The most significant thing which a couple should take into account is the togetherness and the compatibility, which both of them share. This compatibility will help them to remove all the obstacles in their life and live it in a smoother & loving manner.

"Love Without End"

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Wedding Motivational Monday: Weathering the Storm!!

I do a lot of talking about marriage and relationships.  Not because I'm an "expert" but I know that they require work.  I also know that the work can pay off if both people are willing to............. WORK!

People that know me know I have a fear of large bodies of water.  Sometimes when I'm overwhelmed with work and life I'll dream that I'm driving somewhere and the road just suddenly ends with me going into ... guess what? A large body of water!!!  Now I now know what that dream means for me (get some rest) but have you thought about this in terms of your relationship?

Sometimes we're just overwhelmed with life, but how do you know when you're driving down that winding relationship road to what appears to be a large body of nothing?  Here are a few signs to keep in mind and in sight.

No Cookies!!! Intimacy is what keeps the marriage alive folks.  When you rarely or no longer come together for those "moments", the door is left open for other problems.  To be "one" you've got to keep the pot boiling!

Roomates!  What am I saying? You have no words for each other!  You simple share a home and expenses and that's it.   Not even a simple hello/goodbye.  More than friends or casual acquaintances, you must be BEST friends.  You'll need to laugh, have pillow talk.  You shouldn't have to walk on pins and needles around your spouse.

Respect! Or lack there of.  When you no longer care what the other person feels or thinks, you’re going down a very dangerous road.  Marriages seem to be healthier when the wife lets the husband lead, be the head of the house, and when the husband cares for his wife more than he cares for himself.

Marriage is W.O.R.K.. pull up your boots and weather the storm!

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Wedding Motivational Monday: Fighting the Good Fight!

Adrienne & "Mooney" Rufus Trent

Relationships can be very trying at times.  Often to the point of wanting to throw in the towel and say forget this crap!  Well, today being Memorial Day I thought I'd encourage those in relationships or looking for one to fight as our soldiers did.. til the end!!!  After you've done all you can.. prayed AND cried square your shoulders and let's get it because truly anything worth having IS worth fighting for!  Only difference is I'm going to suggest five non-violent ways to fight the good fight.

Communication:  I posted about this topic before and knowing how to communicate effectively is vital to the survival of any relationship.  Ladies, I know they don't want to hear "we need to talk" but sometimes we just do.  Be mindful that the conversation isn't all about what he doesn't do or only about what you need.  Be willing to listen as well as speak.  Fellas, sex doesn't answer all of our questions nor does it make us forget we have them....

No Outsiders: If I could high five myself I would.  Me and you against the world; ride or die; aint no stopping US now; it take two to make a thing go right...yep, all of that!  Many people have a lot of advice for your relationship but be careful when that friend says "girl forget him" or even worse "don't let him/her dictate what you do"  I had the opportunity to listen to a few men give "advice" to a man recently about his situation.  I was appalled at how they treated this brother who was only trying to respect his woman and honor his word.  Seek WISE counsel and use wisdom in doing that :)

Janice & Rochie Surles

Latoya & Dwayne Perry

Counseling: This is where the WISE counsel comes in.  If the relationship needs intervention don't be too proud to talk to someone that can be unbiased and believes in strong, positive relationships!!!

Building: When I say building I mean just that BUILDING! You've seen homes that go up quickly and come down just as quick.  The builder more than likely used cheap materials and didn't put a lot of care into the project.  Put good things into your homes for "A wise woman builds her home but a foolish one tears it down". We must watch our mouths and learn to study to be quiet.  This doesn't mean be a doormat but it does mean learn when to speak and what to speak.



Cara & Scott Nava
Photography by J. Brandy Photography

Respect: Take the top four,  add this and whewwww you'll get as much sex (keep it spicy folks is a bonus tip) as you can stand!!! LOL  yes, there are a few other things but I believe if you can do these five you have a fighting chance!

Disclaimer:  The opinion expressed here is that of my own.. that's it, that's all!

"Love Without End"
Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

{Contest} Pin Your Dream Wedding!!

Four Seasons Hotels and Resorts have long been considered an expert in all things bridal because it has always offered couples weddings beyond compare.  With the rise of Pinterest, Four Seasons has launched a page dedicated to luxury weddings and is offering brides a chance to win a $2,500 Four Seasons Gift Card.

Here are the details:

DREAM IT!

• To enter, create one "My Four Seasons Dream Wedding" Pinterest board that shows your dress, cake decor, bouquet and more!  Don't be shy, pin everything that replicates your Dream Wedding.  If you don't have an account, visit Pinterest  (comment here and I'll send you an invite)  

PIN IT!

• Now that you're in - start pinning.  Let your creativity sore and think color!!
• Share your pins using the hashtag #LuxBride

POST IT!

• Complete and submit your pinterest board HERE.  Boards must be submitted between May 23, 2012 and June 13, 2012.  You must be a resident of US, UK or Canada to enter.

(photo source: pinterest.com/FSBridal)
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CONTEST CRITERIA:

• Log into your Pinterest account
• Follow Four Seasons Hotel and Resorts on Pinterest
• Create your board and title it "My Four Seasons Dream Wedding"
• Pin 10 or more photos from any Four Seasons website (Four Seasons Weddings Magazine, Four Seasons Magazine, Four Seasons website) and as many of your own photos as you wish *make sure the photos you pin are you own and that you have the right to share them*
• Re-pin any images from Four Seasons Hotels and Resorts Pinterest or from any Four Seasons Wedding Pinterest board and include a creative description
• Under each pin, include the hashtag #LuxBride
• There is no maximum number of pins
• FINALLY, submit your complete board and complete the contest form, including the link to your board
• Judging will be conducted by (but not limited to) Four Seasons Wedding Blog contributors
• Creativity counts!!!! Overall creativity will weigh heavily on judges' considerations: Theme, color choice, board composition.

*Full contest details listed HERE

*Use your best image as your cover photo

*Title your images with language that best describes your dream wedding

*Always use #LuxBride in your images' description

Happy Pinning and Love Without End!

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Wedding Movitational Monday: Communication!

How many times have you heard "don't go to bed mad" and "be slow to anger"?  Yeah well, good luck with those two statements.  Now let me give my disclaimer -  I am not a professional counselor, psychologist, etc.  All views and opinions in this post are my own and are based solely on my life experiences.

Although I am no relationship expert I do consider myself an expert in love and romance.  One thing I do know is that where there is NO communication, please believe that love romance are soon to follow.

The "Lees"

If you're in a relationship, you know that conflict is virtually inevitable.  However, conflict isn’t a problem; how it’s handled can bring people together or tear them apart.  Poor communication can kill a good relationhp with disagreements and misunderstandings being a source of anger and distance.  Since we know that conflicts can occur, next time you’re dealing with it, keep these tips on effective communication skills in mind and you can create a more positive outcome.

• Focus: If the discussion is about what happened TODAY; do not bring up what happened last year, last month, last week or even last night.  This does nothing but cloud the current issue with more garbage.. and making the following steps even more difficult.
• Listen: If you're only silent until the other person pauses, you're not listening effectively! No interruption, no being defensive; hear and reflect will go a long way.
• See Both Sides: Everyone wants to be heard and understood.  As much as you believe it; you're not always right!
• Own Whats Yours:  Realize that personal responsibility is a strength, not a weakness.
• Compromise: Look for resolve. It's not about winning or losing. Try to find a place where both partners can if nothing else, agree to disagree!

The "Olsons"

After it's all been said and done - we are going to disagree.  Marriage and relationships are work!! Be determined to live in PEACE!  Don't be a doormat but don't be so eager to argue and fight.  Good communication can resolve a lot of the surface issues we have in our relationships. 

"Love Without End"
Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.