Flattering Bridesmaid Dresses

In this business I have seen quite a few bridesmaid dresses that make me say "for real?"  When choosing dresses for your girls that are flattering!  To do so think texture, color and cut.  Size matters ladies- I'm not not talking about weight.  Height is an important aspect to remember. 

Although you may not be able to please everyone, try and avoid them being uncomfortable.

1. Are you ok with the dresses being different or would you prefer them to be the same? Take into account how many bridesmaids you have when considering this option.
2. Fabric and color! If you have a strong feeling for taffeta, make it known. Not sure what "orange" you want? Sending your bridal party an image of your flowers or other decor can help them with the color family (if that's an option for you)
3. Be consistent!  If everyone has on floor length dresses for your formal wedding; the one bridesmaid in a short cocktail dress just may look out of place.
4. Style, style, style - Sweet heart neckline, high waist, tea length? Keep in mind figures and height when selecting.  When choosing on their own, most women will probably choose a style that works best with their body type.
5. Don't wait too long!! You want to give enough time for alterations if necessary.

You don't have to be a bridezilla BUT it's important to provide guidelines even if you are allowing your bridesmaids to choose their own dresses. (no prints, no strapless, low cleavage, length, etc).  Coordination is important for the pictures

~Enjoy the process

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Wedding Motivational Monday: Fighting the Good Fight!

Adrienne & "Mooney" Rufus Trent

Relationships can be very trying at times.  Often to the point of wanting to throw in the towel and say forget this crap!  Well, today being Memorial Day I thought I'd encourage those in relationships or looking for one to fight as our soldiers did.. til the end!!!  After you've done all you can.. prayed AND cried square your shoulders and let's get it because truly anything worth having IS worth fighting for!  Only difference is I'm going to suggest five non-violent ways to fight the good fight.

Communication:  I posted about this topic before and knowing how to communicate effectively is vital to the survival of any relationship.  Ladies, I know they don't want to hear "we need to talk" but sometimes we just do.  Be mindful that the conversation isn't all about what he doesn't do or only about what you need.  Be willing to listen as well as speak.  Fellas, sex doesn't answer all of our questions nor does it make us forget we have them....

No Outsiders: If I could high five myself I would.  Me and you against the world; ride or die; aint no stopping US now; it take two to make a thing go right...yep, all of that!  Many people have a lot of advice for your relationship but be careful when that friend says "girl forget him" or even worse "don't let him/her dictate what you do"  I had the opportunity to listen to a few men give "advice" to a man recently about his situation.  I was appalled at how they treated this brother who was only trying to respect his woman and honor his word.  Seek WISE counsel and use wisdom in doing that :)

Janice & Rochie Surles

Latoya & Dwayne Perry

Counseling: This is where the WISE counsel comes in.  If the relationship needs intervention don't be too proud to talk to someone that can be unbiased and believes in strong, positive relationships!!!

Building: When I say building I mean just that BUILDING! You've seen homes that go up quickly and come down just as quick.  The builder more than likely used cheap materials and didn't put a lot of care into the project.  Put good things into your homes for "A wise woman builds her home but a foolish one tears it down". We must watch our mouths and learn to study to be quiet.  This doesn't mean be a doormat but it does mean learn when to speak and what to speak.



Cara & Scott Nava
Photography by J. Brandy Photography

Respect: Take the top four,  add this and whewwww you'll get as much sex (keep it spicy folks is a bonus tip) as you can stand!!! LOL  yes, there are a few other things but I believe if you can do these five you have a fighting chance!

Disclaimer:  The opinion expressed here is that of my own.. that's it, that's all!

"Love Without End"
Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Friday Fun Finds: Pin This!

In case you didn't hear, Im working with FOUR SEASONS HOTEL AND RESORTS on a few wonderful initiatives.  Today's post ties in with their Pin Your Dream Wedding contest which gives brides a chance to win a $2500 gift card.  Contest is running until June 23, 2012 - dont miss out!

Below are two REAL WEDDING photo's overlooking the city’s sparkling skyline, Four Seasons Hotel Hong Kong is a perfect backdrop for Samantha and Gary’s hometown wedding.

The bride's gown is from Vera Wang's White collection.

An elegant setting invites the couple’s banquet of 12 traditional Chinese dishes.

~Love Without End
Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

{Contest} Pin Your Dream Wedding!!

Four Seasons Hotels and Resorts have long been considered an expert in all things bridal because it has always offered couples weddings beyond compare.  With the rise of Pinterest, Four Seasons has launched a page dedicated to luxury weddings and is offering brides a chance to win a $2,500 Four Seasons Gift Card.

Here are the details:

DREAM IT!

• To enter, create one "My Four Seasons Dream Wedding" Pinterest board that shows your dress, cake decor, bouquet and more!  Don't be shy, pin everything that replicates your Dream Wedding.  If you don't have an account, visit Pinterest  (comment here and I'll send you an invite)  

PIN IT!

• Now that you're in - start pinning.  Let your creativity sore and think color!!
• Share your pins using the hashtag #LuxBride

POST IT!

• Complete and submit your pinterest board HERE.  Boards must be submitted between May 23, 2012 and June 13, 2012.  You must be a resident of US, UK or Canada to enter.

(photo source: pinterest.com/FSBridal)
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CONTEST CRITERIA:

• Log into your Pinterest account
• Follow Four Seasons Hotel and Resorts on Pinterest
• Create your board and title it "My Four Seasons Dream Wedding"
• Pin 10 or more photos from any Four Seasons website (Four Seasons Weddings Magazine, Four Seasons Magazine, Four Seasons website) and as many of your own photos as you wish *make sure the photos you pin are you own and that you have the right to share them*
• Re-pin any images from Four Seasons Hotels and Resorts Pinterest or from any Four Seasons Wedding Pinterest board and include a creative description
• Under each pin, include the hashtag #LuxBride
• There is no maximum number of pins
• FINALLY, submit your complete board and complete the contest form, including the link to your board
• Judging will be conducted by (but not limited to) Four Seasons Wedding Blog contributors
• Creativity counts!!!! Overall creativity will weigh heavily on judges' considerations: Theme, color choice, board composition.

*Full contest details listed HERE

*Use your best image as your cover photo

*Title your images with language that best describes your dream wedding

*Always use #LuxBride in your images' description

Happy Pinning and Love Without End!

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Wedding Wednesday: Meet Abigail!

Simply Perfect Peace Events and Designs by Shay is pleased to introduce you to our calligrapher and design associate, ABIGAIL OLSEN!  Abigail began her college career in graphic design and has always had a passion for creativity.  A self professed DIY junkie, you can count on her for not only amazing hand printing but clean, modern, beautiful design work as well. 

Abigail and I first met in Waukegan when I was working for Blue Cross Blue Shield when I was given the assignment to work as a project coordinator for a major corporate initiative to be held in Waukegan where she worked.  At that time had no idea of how close we would become while working on what seemed like a year long project.  Abigail was instrumental in the overall success of the project.... therefore, when considering who to add to our team, it was a no brainer!



To my delight, Abigail and I were finishing up yet another project for BCBS in 2009 and she said "Help I'm Engaged!  On 10-10-10, Abigail and Rocky were married in the mountains of Utah and I was honored to work with them on the most memorable project of their lives.

ABIGAIL "ABBEY" .............. WELCOME!!! To view the blog post by (Wedding photographed by Kayleen Taulanga)

"Love Without End"
Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Wedding Motivational Monday: Weight Loss

You've gotten the ring, ordered the cake and flowers; what about the personal trainer?  Many brides struggle with whether or not they want to lose weight prior to their wedding day.  If you're trying to lose 5, 10, 40 or simply maintain, here are a few pointers to consider.

1. Dont wait until the last minute to consider your weight loss plan. If you can afford it, invest in a trainer, take a class, dance!!
2. Trade the soda for water.  Good old H2o (if you struggle in this area and need flavor, add lemons, limes or oranges)
3. Double portions aren't going to help you here.  I know moms macaroni and cheese is delicious but small portions are key.  For energy, consider carrying healthy snacks.
4. FRUITS and VEGETABLES .... they'll fill you up and hopefully will have less room for the fattening stuff.
5. NO MORE BOOZE!!! Hundreds of empty calories can add quick unwanted pounds.
6. Again, you MUST add exercise to your daily regimen.  Get up, get out and get moving!  This will increase your energy level and aid in the fat burning process.

"A strong positive attitude will create more miracles than any wonder drug"

~Love Without End
Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Life of a Bridesmaid...

Are you always asked to be a bridesmaid and still waiting to be a bride?  Well, good news for you - bridemaid dresses have come a long way!!

"Love Without End"
Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Fun Friday Finds: HAIRccessorize

Having a special event or getting married and interested in adding a splash of color or some pizzaz to your hair?  Why not HAIRccessorize with Bloomin Headz! Inspired by color, people and music Sidney Louise is passionate about "Being Her Own Sunshine".  Floral accessories for all occasions; this product line includes an array of items to make you smile. 

Although located in Chicago, these HAIRccessories, which are appropriate for girls of all agess, can be ordered and sent anywhere... and I mean ANYWHERE!

Interested in seeing more or ordering? Visit Bloomin Headz website HERE and be sure to say "Designs by Shay loves BLOOMIN HEADZ" - you never know what deals await you!

~Love Without End
Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Vera Wang goes RED!!

After last season's all-black collection, Vera Wang is doing monochrome again — but this time, it's all about the red. Or, as the collection's title, "Mei Meng" — Chinese for "beautiful dreams" — suggests, perhaps it's all about the Chinese market. The brand plans on entering Asia this year, and bridal is the first push.

Join Vera Wang Chicago

 May 3rd-6th to view the Spring 2013 Collection 

Located at 945 Rush Street,

Call 312.379.5355 to schedule an appointment.

Red - would you wear it? We'd love your feedback... to see more of the collection click HERE

"Love Without End"
Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.