Monday, June 11, 2012

Wedding Motivational Monday: What a girl wants; what a man needs!

Intimacy and companionship!  YES, in that order is what Men need and just the reverse for what a Woman wants.  As women, we want to be with someone that wants to be with us and makes us feel safe and secure.  He shares our goals and dreams, pretends to listen to us talk and certainly makes us (keke)laugh at any moment of the day.  Given all of the above- intimacy is sure to be part of the equation. 

Rasheeda & Troy Bibbs
For men, the most important thing for them following intimacy is companionship.  Recently, one of my Facebook friends posted that she was watching paint dry (literally) with her husband.  This was something I'm sure was boring for her, however, because he wanted to watch it dry...... so be it!

We all live busy lives and can easily get too caught up in that to where intimacy in our marriage gets pushed to the back burner.  Special occasions shouldn't be the only time you take time to fully enjoy your partner.   Everyone needs to feel loved and appreciated and when it comes to having a strong marriage, being under-valued can really hurt your self esteem and destroy your marriage.

Mr. & Mrs. Troy Bibbs
"A work in progress with a lifetime contract"

Take a look over the last week of your marriage; how often are you intimate with your spouse?  When was the last time you simply said something nice?
"Marriage isn't supposed to make you happy & satisfied. It's your job to make your marriage happy & satisfying. Same goes for sex. It isn't supposed to make  you passionate and "hot". It's up to you to make it passionate, "hot" &  intimate. Our wedding was many years ago, but the celebration continues to this day!" -Rasheeda Bibbs

Disclaimer:  I am no counselor or therapist-just living life, learning and sharing as I go along.

~Love Without End
Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

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