Monday, June 4, 2012
Wedding Motivational Monday: Be Your Own Motivation!
Has your marriage or relationship hit rock bottom? If so, the good news is at this point all you can do is think UP, not down. Wallowing in self pity is self destructive and will destroy your relationships because you probably aren't communicating effectively.
If I have said it once, I've said it a thousand times... "study to be quiet and work with your own hands"! Sounds easy right? About as easy as knowing that a wise woman builds her house and a foolish one tears it down.... (think about it).
Now isn't the time to be foolish. It's easier to stay motivated when you remove all the roadblocks that are blocking the path to happiness. Let's be candid here... if you find yourself swaying toward another persons grass instead of your spouse, cut off communication and focus more on your own lawn.
Use your failures as motivation to start working towards improving and a means of climbing up the hill. If we don't motivate, we fail... that's it, that's all! The difference between people that fail and those that fail and SUCCEED is the desire to stay motivated and pick yourself up.
Be CONFIDENT in yourself and your spouse knowing that you're in it together. In having confidence it's vital to have a true desire to change. This isn't the time to fake the funk. Know that everyone struggles; allow yourself time to cope and then make an action plan to get through them as a TEAM. Not a team of 5 either... just 2. (just the two of us, we can make it if we try. Just the two of us....)
Disclaimer: I'm no counselor or therapist.. just living life, learning and sharing.
"Love Without End"
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