Renee + Excell = Marrying An Angel Pt.1

In addition to having the peaceful pleasure of working with an absolutely adorable couple!
Val and I enjoyed working with Trish and the entire staff at the Rialto Theater . From start to finish they were a complete joy and provided a wealth of information to make our day run as smooth as silk.

The bridal party was transported to the venue by Integrity First Limo's. Renee and Excell chose to marry at the historical Rialto Square Theatre in Joliet with the actual ceremony taking place on stage like a Broadway production. Filled with history, romance and elegance - "Marrying an Angel" came to life! Professional photographs were taken by Not On A Saturday Photography and will be coming soon. In the meantime, enjoy the beautiful amateur pictures taken with my Canon 1100 :)

The lovely Bride's hair was designed by Lati of "Styles Down the Aisles"

The creative decor was provided by In The Mood
and custom handmade Playbill, Table and Escort cards by Designs By Shay

Cake created by Sharon's Custom Cakes of Crete, Illinois

The Gold and Ivory linen provided by B & B Chaircovers of Chicago, Illinois

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What's Up - Fall Insipration

Waving bye bye to summer and hello to Fall! Fall is a great time of year for weddings. Although I didn't do this wedding nor did it take place in the city, it does have all of the elements of Fall and encourages one to think outside the box. . Alison Magda is a wonderful photographer, enjoy the photographs of this fall inspired wedding Photographed by Alyyson Magda. This wedding is really nice and elegant

The bride in this wedding wore an incredible Carolina Hererra gown and the maids rocked it out in denim dresses. Denim?? Whodathunk right...So cute.

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10 MUST Haves - Part 4

Know How to Have Fun

8. Keep Serving Simple
The elaborate passing of food, called French service, should be left to the French. Unless you have an army of waiters at your beck and call, self-service rules. For a small number of guests, a good arrangement is to place all the food, buffet-style, on one main table, and designate another table for the bar. However, the bigger the party, the more you ought to consider setting up several food areas so that everyone doesn't end up crowded in one spot. For example, use your coffee table for the hors d'oeuvres, your buffet top for the cheese platter, and a card table for coffee and sweets. One place you should avoid using for food service is your kitchen. During the party, it will be far too busy a place to have your guests gathering (and getting in the way). During your party, check often to see how everything looks, rearranging and replacing food as necessary. As food is finished, remove empty dishes, making sure everything looks as fresh for the last guest as it did for the first.

9. Ask For Help
One word separates the confident host from the person who swears she'll never entertain again as long as she lives: Help! And the larger your party, the more help you'll need. A bartender is particularly useful as well as a few hands to help with the cleanup.

But if you really want to save money, the number one source of your household help should be...your household. As long as they've reached coat-carrying age, your children can -- and should -- pitch in. In fact, most kids love being more than just decorative accessories at their parents' parties. You may be pleasantly surprised to discover how good your children feel about helping to clear away glasses, passing hors d'oeuvres and, yes, getting people's coats for them.

In addition, don't hesitate to look beyond your doors to relatives, close friends and coworkers. As long as you're gracious about it and ask in advance, most people are only too delighted to help out at parties. It's an opportunity for them to show off their talents and resourcefulness, and you can couple your request with a promise to reciprocate at their next big event.

10. Enjoy Yourself
The final commandment is both the hardest and the most important thing for a party giver to do. You've worked extra hard, you want everything to be perfect and you worry that your guests won't enjoy themselves if it isn't. But the truth is that most people are delighted to have someone go to all the trouble it takes to entertain. Your guests will never know that you forgot the cucumbers for the salad or that the dessert was store-bought -- and if they do figure it out, chances are they won't care. When they arrive, they'll be in a party mood and pleased just to have been invited. So take a deep breath before you open the door to your first guest and relax.

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10 MUST Haves - Part 3

Keep Your Sanity!


5. Set a Gorgeous Table
A beautifully set table can make even plain food look elegant and inviting. And you don't need to spend a lot of money to do it. Start with a great tablecloth, especially if your dining-room table has seen better days. Tablecloths cover a multitude of sins while adding color, pattern, even drama to your party. If you don't own the perfect tablecloth, search out thrift shops and antique stores for old linens. Don't feel limited to standard tablecloths -- I've seen beautifully patterned sheets called into action. Even large square silk scarves can make a statement when placed on a diagonal over a plain white tablecloth. Whatever kind of cloth you use, place a felt pad or plastic liner on the table first to protect its surface.

When it comes to centerpieces, don't limit your thinking to flowers. Fruits, vegetables, a ball of Christmas balls at the holidays, even toys can add whimsy and charm to your table setting. I remember a gorgeous table set with nothing more than three pineapples that had been spray painted gold, nestled in some evergreens and surrounded by ivory candles. To spark your imagination, walk through your house and see what's there. Look in your drawers and cabinets and you may well find decorating treasures.
You can't go wrong with candles. Candlelight is the kindest light of all, warm and cozy. Candles of various heights and diameters look especially lovely when grouped together on mirrored surfaces (if you don't have a mirrored tray, use a small wall mirror with the hanger on the back removed, or mirrored tile from the hardware store.) Whatever method you use to display them, however, it's best to use dripless candles. They're well worth the extra expense -- especially at cleanup time.

6. Make As Much As You Can As Far Ahead As You Can
Waiting until the last few days before your party to cook everything just doesn't make sense -- especially when, if you examine your menu, you'll see that much of it can be prepared ahead, frozen and reheated. Just pin up a reminder to yourself so you don't forget to defrost in time.

Don't rule out convenience foods: As far as I'm concerned, the bakery does a much better job of baking bread than I do. And why spend time washing and peeling baby carrots when they come packaged that way at the supermarket?

For those things that demand last-minute attention, don't be proud, be smart: Have meats and cheeses sliced at the grocery store. Buy packaged ice. The idea is to work smarter not harder...minimize your efforts so you haven't exhausted yourself before the party even begins.

7. Don't Drive Yourself Crazy Cleaning
Our advice: Don't attempt a top-to-bottom housecleaning before your party. Confine your efforts to the rooms your guests will see and use. And close the doors to the others.

But there is one place you should spend some time scrubbing: the bathroom. It's the one room by which your guests will judge the cleanliness of the whole house. Make sure it's spotless, and enhance the overall impression of clean by removing all the clutter -- toiletries, bathrobes, rubber duckies.

Clutter removal is key to the rest of your housecleaning too. Here's my technique: After you've done the bathroom, start cleaning where the guests will enter. Get rid of mail on the hall table. Stash the coats, the toys and the dog's leash. Cleaning as you go, proceed to your party rooms and remove newspapers and magazines. It's a great idea to clear off tables and countertops, too, because you'll need the space for food and drinks. Polish all wooden and glass surfaces, but do not bother cleaning the windows. Once your rooms are filled with people, no one will be looking out them anyway.

more to come...

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10 MUST haves - Part 2

As promised - more on the series of throwing great parties and 10 commandments or must haves for a great event. Remember, first we had to get those lists together and hire a great planner for easy transitions and pulling everything together. Now on to the fun stuff - shopping!

Be Realistic

Your Shopping List:
Look over each item on your menu and if not hiring a caterer list everything you'll need to make it happen. Note each ingredient (including garnishes), then check your pantry and your spice rack. Nothing's more annoying than thinking "I'm sure I have that" only to find out that you don't when it's time to add it to the recipe.

Now is also the time to be sure that you have the equipment all the dishes on your menu call for -- whether it's a food processor or a particular size roasting pan. Whatever you don't have, borrow from friends or buy cheaply at a local restaurant-supply store. If you entertain often, the right equipment is worth the investment. Keep in mind that it takes twice as long to make cookies if you have only one baking sheet instead of the two required, and ten times as long to chop some ingredients by hand than by food processor.

In addition, count up the plates and platters, serving utensils, glasses, silverware, cocktail and dinner napkins and even tablecloths you'll need. Don't forget serving trays, punch bowls, coffee urns and folding chairs. If you're short, call your local party-rental place and reserve what you need now. The holiday season in particular is one of the biggest times of the year for party rentals and you don't want to be scrambling to find essentials at the last moment. Many people would rather borrow from friends and family than rent. But why risk Mother's fine china, when most party rentals have a breakage allowance built into the cost? Contact me for some great rental places that handle everything from chargers (plates) to stages..

2. Appeal to The Eye As Well As The Taste Buds
Step outside the box of chicken wings, meatballs and other "regular" food. try large platters of raw vegetables and dip, add salsa to an oversized martini glass with a decorative platter for the chips. In all this have a beautiful centerpiece to your buffet. Why? Because with their wonderful colors and textures, they look gorgeous, whether they get eaten or not! In planning your menu, take time to make sure you have as many colors and textures as possible. Think red peppers, tangerines, yellow squash and green beans to brighten up all-brown, or otherwise bland-looking dishes.

Garnishes are another great way to add color. As professional chefs know, most garnishes only look difficult to create, yet they have the power to make even a simple dish look special. And if radish roses and cucumber fans seem too fancy, you can get that restaurant look with a few well-placed sprigs of fresh herbs.

3. Make Sure Your Kitchen Can Get the Job Done
It's quite pointless to plan a party that your kitchen can't handle. Every kitchen has space constraints; make sure you know yours. For example, can your refrigerator fit all those platters of cold hors d'oeuvres? Can your stove handle heating the five dishes you plan to serve hot at the same time? If not, now's the time to make adjustments and substitutions. You can avoid kitchen crunch by choosing a menu of foods served at a variety of temperatures and preparing as many dishes in advance as possible (some can be made as much as a month ahead). The one catch: Don't forget to allow enough time for defrosting and reheating on party day.

If you run out of storage space, be creative. Stow food in the microwave and warm bread on top of the dryer in the laundry room. If it's really cold outside, the porch or garage can serve as a second refrigerator. And speaking of the fridge, now's a good time to clean it out. You can reclaim lots of space by removing any items that can be stored elsewhere or that should have been tossed long ago.

4. Shop Smart
The sanest way to shop for a party is in stages. Divide your shopping list by store and buy all the nonperishables you need as early as possible.

Consider some alternate resources for what you need. Read the ads in the newspaper to see what's on sale at the supermarkets in your area. It may be worth the trip to an unfamiliar store to save money on the big-ticket items on your menu, such as fillet of beef, turkey, ham or shrimp. And don't forget the local beverage warehouse, where soft drinks and beer are often priced substantially below supermarkets.

Finally, thrift shops can yield wonderful finds for entertaining. Extra glasses, tableware, silver and candlesticks can often be had at a fraction of what new ones would cost.


more to come....

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10 MUSTS of Great Party Giving

Start Planning ASAP

For some of us, the mere thought of entertaining just our nearest and dearest brings about excitement only those in this business would understand. We face each task as an adventure and cant wait to dodge and weave obstacles that might terrorize the faint at heart. As an inveterate party giver, I've learned that throwing even a big holiday party doesn't have to be difficult, and can actually be fun -- if you follow certain rules. Wherever you fall on the entertaining spectrum, taking some hints from Reader's Digest, here are our ten MUSTS for making any party an unqualified success.


1. Sharpen Your Pencil and Start Planning Now
It wouldn't be a bad idea to start planning your party the moment you finish reading this. Seriously, the more time you have before the Big Day, the more organizing, shopping and cooking that you can do well in advance -- instead of in a mad rush at the end.

The first step is to hire an experienced event planner that doesn't get unraveled by these tiresome tasks and has the time to do necessary research. With or without a planner you'll need to create three master lists (guests, menu, shopping) that will help you keep track of everything for the party. Keep the lists in your wallet or date book, so you'll know exactly what you still need to purchase and how many guests have RSVP'd at all times.

Your Guest List:
You might want to call those guests whose presence you consider essential before you even set the date for your party. Inevitably, not everyone you ask will be able to come. But if "it just wouldn't be the same without them," make sure they're free and invite them then and there. Your other guests should be invited as soon as you set the date. Try to give people no less than three weeks' notice -- remember, holiday schedules fill up fast. A good strategy: Invite friends and family by phone, then follow up with a written reminder.

Your Food and Drink List:
Whether you're planning a brunch, buffet, or a cocktail party, food and drink are your party's most important ingredients. The first item to determine is the main dish. Jot down a list of recipes you're confident that you can cook well and that are proven crowd pleasers. Remember, to you it may be the same old lasagna, but to your guests it could be a new taste treat. If you do want to serve a dish you've never cooked before, be sure to test the recipe at least once (twice is even safer) before the party.

After you've figured out the main course, build the rest of the menu around it, following that same "I feel confident I can make this" rule. And don't make things too hard on yourself. If you'll be cooking a complicated main dish, go for simple appetizers and side dishes that can be easily prepared in advance.

Next, take a careful look at the yields of the recipes you'll be using to be sure they will make enough to feed your crowd. If your favorite wild rice recipe serves four but you're inviting eight, be sure it can be easily doubled before you put it on the menu.

Finally, don't forget to add beverages to your list. Plan to have a variety of nonalcoholic drinks on hand. It's best to buy more than you think you'll need. And buy lots of ice the day of the party. That way, you won't have to waste precious fridge space to chill bottles of soda. When it comes to alcohol, don't feel obligated to set up a full bar. Unless you're having a cocktail party, it's fine to limit your selections to wine and beer, and perhaps a special punch. Whatever you serve, encourage moderation -- the last thing you want people to remember about your party is a hangover.

... more to come tomorrow

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Peaceful Weddings - Apryl + Dwayne = Unbreakable Love

Apryl and Dwayne were a really nice couple we (Thanks Val) had the pleasure of working with to plan this beautiful, detailed, and personal event for the two of them. Although brought in at the 9th hour (last minute details package), I do believe we were able to capture and carry out their vision. We were thrilled to have a great weather day so that the bride and groom were able to take wonderful photographs outside prior to the ceremony and the reception. Enjoy the beautiful pictures taken by Ronald Ewell of BeHealthy Photography.

All of Apryl's bridesmaids wore chocolate dresses to accent the shades of blue.

The groomsmen wore all white, with brown vests and blue accent ties. What a nice group of young men!
The Sabre Room provided a nice ending to a very peaceful and elegant wedding and the couple wanted to share some sweetness with their guests by providing a candy buffet in addition to their wedding cake.




Apryl & Dwayne, we loved every minute of working with you two and best wishes and many, many years of wedded happiness!




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Plan a Wedding in 1 Month - Photographer

This is one area I recommend you don't skimp on. As a bride, this is the most beautiful day of your life. You will never look more glamorous than you do in the wedding dress of your dreams, hair styled, makeup done, you're posed and ready to be in every shot possible. After the many years of marriage, and all the money, what is left for you to remember your wedding day: your pictures. One of the questions that I ask planning clients is what are your top 3 priorities. So many times photography is one of the those top three priorities and finding the right photographer for you and your fiance' is a task in itself. Most of the time brides don't necessarily find the perfect photographer in the first glance... they take time, interview, look at albums and photos, and then decide. Here are some suggestions in finding the right photographer to shoot your one and only wedding day:

* Begin looking any many different types of photographers to find the right ones for you to interview. What's the most important elements/style that you want your photographer to carry? Do you want mostly photo journalistic? Do you want traditional, posed shots? Do you want all candids? What type of editing style do you like? Think and research the different types of photographers in your area.
* When narrowing down your choices, make sure that you're looking at photographers within your budget. You may have your photographer as a high priority, so you may be willing to sacrifice other areas of your budget to have the photographer that you highly desire. Look at the benefits of the packages that the photographers offer. Do you receive tangible items with the photographers packages? Can you create your own custom package to fit your needs? How many hours of service does each package include, and how many hours would you want your photographer to be present to document?
* Compare packages and compare images. Take a look at blogs to see the most up to date work that they offer, as well as seeing complete works or events so that you can see an entire story documented.
* When interviewing photographers think about asking these questions to find out their credentials, but also how they function as a business: How long is your editing time and when would you expect to see your images? If I receive the disc of images from our wedding, what are my rights for printing? Do you bring back up equipment to your events in case an accident occurs? Are you a member of a photographers association? Do you offer extra sessions such as engagement, bridal, day after sessions, etc.? Talk with them about their typical day of and what their time line usually looks like.
* Think about their personalities and how you get along. You'll be with them a lot on the day of and you want to make sure that it is someone you can tolerate for lengthy periods of time. You want to be comfortable with them because if you're not comfortable, you won't look comfortable in your pictures.
* Talk about the details of your wedding day with them: will you be seeing each other before the ceremony? Do they plan a time for just the two of you together, a private moment? Are there a lot of shots with just the two of you? Your wedding is the day that the two of you will look your best and will get the best shots of you two together.

Remember, when the flowers are dead, the guests are all gone, the honeymoon is over, your photographs are what you have to look back on. Make sure that your photographer captures the moments that you love and every time you look at them you'll get chills to remember what that day was all about!



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