Friday, December 5, 2014

Love, Laughter and EVERYTHING in Between: Day 5 - Do's and Don'ts of Attire!


As we're headed into the weekend you may be putting the final touches on your entire to a special event or even a wedding.  The phrase “I have nothing to wear” is common enough, but attending a wedding or special event makes people shout it from the rooftops. No matter your age group, dress codes are always a possibility. What are the rules of guest attire?  My motto is that if you're questioning it; then you probably shouldn't wear it. Here are my top do’s and don’ts when considering what to wear.

 1. DO consider dress code.
Is this celebration black tie, semi-formal, casual, or even a costume party? What the host/bride wants should always be considered before making any fashion decision.

2. DO consider location.
The attire you wear to a beach will (obviously) be much different than the outfit you rock at a 5 star hotel. Consult the dress code provided, please use common sense when it’s time to decide between flip flops and heels.

3. DON’T be afraid of color.
Being a lover of black I too struggle in this area. How can we add color to our wardrobe?  Throw on some colorful jewelry or fellas let your bowtie add some spice to your usual drab look.  When choosing color, be careful so that you aren't mistaken for a bridesmaid or groomsman!

4. DO check with the weatherman.
We're in Chicago so it can be all four seasons in one day.  Know the forecast before you leave the house. Be prepared for rain, snow, or whatever else Mother Nature decides to throw at you. Ladies, the most important thing to consider is wind!

5. DO wear layers.
Layers are something I live by; AC can be a life saver, but it can also be a woman’s worst nightmare. Bring a cute, cropped jacket or cardigan no matter what. An outdoor party can quickly turn chilly as it reaches evening hours. Haute Hosiery, tights and leggings are layers to think about, too.

6. DO consider time of day.
This may seem obvious, but so many ladies forget that evenings here in Chicago can be a quite nippy! Layers are my go-to, but if the event is an evening affair, consider a long-sleeved cocktail look.

7. DON’T wear black.
Before you get upset, I need you to know that I disagree with this rule in the book of guest etiquette. Obviously someone with a lack of love for the Little Black Dress added it years ago without thinking of its flattering and fashionable traits. Being a lover of this fabulous figure flattering color I think wearing black is perfectly acceptable—when the venue calls for it. Try to keep a Little Black Dress in the closet for a backyard, beach, or brunch party. In the end, consider color, but never rule out black.

8. DON’T wear jeans and/or tennis shoes.
I know it's considered cute to put on a pair of Chucks but IMO this rule should be obvious. I’m going to make it very clear for everyone: Jeans are never allowed unless specifically told by the host/bride and groom that they’re having jean and t-shirt affair.  Otherwise, trade in your Levi’s for a dress/skirt or a pair of slacks.

9. DON’T “forget” to wear undergarments.
Ladies, please remember to wear underwear and a bra. Also, neither should ever make an appearance during the festivities. This goes for guys too—pull up your pants.


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10. DO cover yourself up.
We're in WINTER so unless you're wearing some Haute Hosiery try and stay away from too short or too low cut; consider the event and use your best judgment.


Until Next Time
~SimplySHAY


Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Thursday, December 4, 2014

Love, Laughter and EVERYTHING in Between: Day 4 - Soulmates!


I was having a conversation with my niece and she asked the question, "Can you have more than one soul mate?"  My immediate answer was no because although I feel you can love more than one person, I believe that there is only ONE person that is indeed for you.

According to Wikipedia, A soulmate is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity. This may involve similarity, love, romance, friendship, intimacy, sexuality, sexual activity, spirituality, or compatibility and trust

Do soulmates exist? One would argue that Soulmates are believed to be our “love match”, the other twin of our soul. If you have episodes of yearning and longing, that’s because you haven’t met yet the special someone who can fill up your loneliness. If you have fears, he definitely has ways to subside them. He can put an end to your uncertainty; he spells happiness. Soulmates complement us rather than complete us.

So, the question is, how do you find your soulmate when you have no place to start and you have no hint at whom to look for?

Do you believe in soulmates?

~Until Next time
SimplySHAY

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Love, Laughter and EVERYTHING in Between: Day 3- Bow ties!


In general, it seems that there are two types of neckties; bow ties, and straight ties. Throughout the years, bow ties have become increasingly popular, with men and women using this trendy neckwear as a tool for self-expression.  Simplistic is great but don't be afraid of color and textures...I absolutely love this look; be sure check out my Pinterest page for other ideas.


A glamourous, vintage wedding photographed beautifully by Christa Elyce Photography.
 
Man in Pink | Preppy Plaid Bow ties.

The Original With Snakeskin Bow Tie by Brackish Bow Ties
Found on allthingselegant.tumblr.com


Simply Perfect Peace Events
Tanyia Koonce Photography



How do you feel about bowties? I'd love to hear your feedback.
~Until Next Time
SimplySHAY

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Tuesday, December 2, 2014

Love, Laughter and EVERYTHING in Between: Day 2: Tablescapes!


It's the holiday season and anyone that knows me knows that I enjoy having people over, feeding them and making sure it's an overall fabulous experience. One way I try and make the atmosphere special is in the simple details. It's the Simply Peaceful things and having a nice table sets the tone for a truly wonderful evening. 
 
You may be feeling like you can't do it but tablescapes aren't as difficult as you may think. Get yourself some chargers, nice crisp linen, a few candles and you're well on our way. Don't be afraid of color and by all means, do NOT use plastic (smile) …



 


Until Next Time....
SimplySHAY

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Monday, December 1, 2014

Love, Laughter, and Everything In Between: Day 1 - Motivation!!

31 DAYS OF
LOVE~LAUGHTER AND EVERTHING IN BETWEEN

Welcome to Day 1 of "Love, Laughter and Everything in Between!"  Today we're going to blog about WEDDING MOTIVATION!



He asked and you've said yes!!! This is typically a very exciting time for most brides but can also be a bit overwhelming if you're not careful.  Ask a bride what she wants and then ask a groom, the answers are more than likely going to be very different. Once engaged and have shared your excitement with your loved ones many times as a bride you'll want to hit the ground running and be in full planning mode.  The groom, however, will still be in chill mode basking in what's to come... his new bride.

My advice for the newly engaged is to simply SLOW DOWN!  I know you may be getting hit from all angles to make decisions but the best decision you can make at this moment is to enjoy the engagement for a few weeks, let it all sink in, hire a planner and set some goals.  Trying to tackle everything at once will definitely burn you out.

Until next time....
SimplySHAY


Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

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