Love, Laughter and EVERYTHING in Between: Day 5 - Do's and Don'ts of Attire!

As we're headed into the weekend you may be putting the final touches on your entire to a special event or even a wedding.  The phrase “I have nothing to wear” is common enough, but attending a wedding or special event makes people shout it from the rooftops. No matter your age group, dress codes are always a possibility. What are the rules of guest attire?  My motto is that if you're questioning it; then you probably shouldn't wear it. Here are my top do’s and don’ts when considering what to wear.

 1. DO consider dress code.
Is this celebration black tie, semi-formal, casual, or even a costume party? What the host/bride wants should always be considered before making any fashion decision.

2. DO consider location.
The attire you wear to a beach will (obviously) be much different than the outfit you rock at a 5 star hotel. Consult the dress code provided, please use common sense when it’s time to decide between flip flops and heels.

3. DON’T be afraid of color.
Being a lover of black I too struggle in this area. How can we add color to our wardrobe?  Throw on some colorful jewelry or fellas let your bowtie add some spice to your usual drab look.  When choosing color, be careful so that you aren't mistaken for a bridesmaid or groomsman!

4. DO check with the weatherman.
We're in Chicago so it can be all four seasons in one day.  Know the forecast before you leave the house. Be prepared for rain, snow, or whatever else Mother Nature decides to throw at you. Ladies, the most important thing to consider is wind!

5. DO wear layers.
Layers are something I live by; AC can be a life saver, but it can also be a woman’s worst nightmare. Bring a cute, cropped jacket or cardigan no matter what. An outdoor party can quickly turn chilly as it reaches evening hours. Haute Hosiery, tights and leggings are layers to think about, too.

6. DO consider time of day.
This may seem obvious, but so many ladies forget that evenings here in Chicago can be a quite nippy! Layers are my go-to, but if the event is an evening affair, consider a long-sleeved cocktail look.

7. DON’T wear black.
Before you get upset, I need you to know that I disagree with this rule in the book of guest etiquette. Obviously someone with a lack of love for the Little Black Dress added it years ago without thinking of its flattering and fashionable traits. Being a lover of this fabulous figure flattering color I think wearing black is perfectly acceptable—when the venue calls for it. Try to keep a Little Black Dress in the closet for a backyard, beach, or brunch party. In the end, consider color, but never rule out black.

8. DON’T wear jeans and/or tennis shoes.
I know it's considered cute to put on a pair of Chucks but IMO this rule should be obvious. I’m going to make it very clear for everyone: Jeans are never allowed unless specifically told by the host/bride and groom that they’re having jean and t-shirt affair.  Otherwise, trade in your Levi’s for a dress/skirt or a pair of slacks.

9. DON’T “forget” to wear undergarments.
Ladies, please remember to wear underwear and a bra. Also, neither should ever make an appearance during the festivities. This goes for guys too—pull up your pants.

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10. DO cover yourself up.
We're in WINTER so unless you're wearing some Haute Hosiery try and stay away from too short or too low cut; consider the event and use your best judgment.


Until Next Time
~SimplySHAY


Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Love, Laughter and EVERYTHING in Between: Day 3- Bow ties!

In general, it seems that there are two types of neckties; bow ties, and straight ties. Throughout the years, bow ties have become increasingly popular, with men and women using this trendy neckwear as a tool for self-expression.  Simplistic is great but don't be afraid of color and textures...I absolutely love this look; be sure check out my Pinterest page for other ideas.



A glamourous, vintage wedding photographed beautifully by Christa Elyce Photography.

 

Man in Pink | Preppy Plaid Bow ties.

The Original With Snakeskin Bow Tie by Brackish Bow Ties

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Simply Perfect Peace Events
Tanyia Koonce Photography

How do you feel about bowties? I'd love to hear your feedback.
~Until Next Time
SimplySHAY

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

WEDnesday Love: "Celebrating Fathers"

Father's Day is Sunday, June 15th and to celebrate here are a few accessories for the well dressed man in your life.

 

Be sure to check out more ideas at http://pinterest.com/designsbyshay

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

WEDnesday Love: WOW, Your Wedding Dress

You look at some brides and believe they just have "it". That something that makes them look effortlessly stylish, pulled together, and WOW! But if you think they were born with it, think again.  Choosing a wedding dress is one of the biggest personal things you'll do for your wedding.  Everybody has a different shape and style and thinking about how your gown will fit is just as important as the venue you choose.

If you're pear shaped, you may want to look for a skirt that gradually flares out in an A formation from the natural waist to the floor, highlighting the narrowness of the midsection and floating away from the hips and thighs. A spaghetti-strap bodice or a V neckline will also showcase a more slender upper body.  Keep in mind that a classic A-line silhouette lends itself to formal weddings, but it can also be dressed down when made from a more casual fabric.

If you're busty, consider a dress with a scooped neckline. It will open up your face without showing too much cleavage. If you love the look of strapless gowns, choose one that has a slight dip along the neckline, like a sweetheart, rather than a style that goes straight across (which will make your bust appear even larger and more shelf like). FYI: Ruched materials and fabric on the bodice that has a sheen to it (such as organza, satin, or silk) will add volume and call attention to your chest.

For my plus size ladies, an Empire dress with a skirt that begins just under the bust and flows into a gradual floor-length A-line is a good choice. Make sure the Empire seam does not start on the chest and that there is no pleating of the fabric, which is reminiscent of maternity wear. The dress should play up your shape; if it’s too loose, it will add pounds.

A dress that cinches in at the smallest point on the waistline, then flares out into a gradual A shape is great if you have an apple shape. Opt for a bodice with a lot of texture to it―think ruche or lace detailing―that will camouflage and fit snugly, creating a corsetlike effect. The most slenderizing neckline for you is one with a deep V, which will draw eyes toward the vertical, not the horizontal.  However, be careful to avoid trumpet dress styles, which emphasize the area where your body is widest and flare out at the legs and the knees, where you are most slender.

If you're a taller bride choose a simple silhouette. The strategy is to emphasize your natural shape, so every aspect of the dress―the lower waistline, a floor-sweeping hem.  Because of your height, you'll want to stay on the side of simplicity when it comes to embellishments. Too many bells and whistles, like ruffles and rosettes, can come off as cutesy, particularly on a tall person.

Last but certainly not least; if you're petite check out trumpet, sheath, and modified A-line gowns. Find a style with a waistline above your natural waist, to make the lower half of the dress appear longer.

Now that you've considered your shape - Did you think about how you will put it on? Have you considered who will be helping you with it? Be sure they know how to lace up the back of the dress and bustle you correctly.

Hope this is helpful when you're shopping for your wedding gown!

"Love & Laughter"

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. and Designs by Shay, the Blog "My Journey, My Way, My LIFESTYLE ~ Celebrating Love, Laughter and Everything in Between..." You or your brand interested in a review? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Fun Friday Finds: Bridal Nails

Nail art is huge and as your big day approaches the last thing on your list may be what to do with yours.  I love the idea of letting your personality come through on your wedding day.  Understanding that everything is for everyone here are some ideas from www.cynfulnails.com and Clara that are far from simple.. yet beautiful.  ENJOY!

 

How do you feel about Bridal Nail Art on your big day?

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Flattering Bridesmaid Dresses

In this business I have seen quite a few bridesmaid dresses that make me say "for real?"  When choosing dresses for your girls that are flattering!  To do so think texture, color and cut.  Size matters ladies- I'm not not talking about weight.  Height is an important aspect to remember. 

Although you may not be able to please everyone, try and avoid them being uncomfortable.

1. Are you ok with the dresses being different or would you prefer them to be the same? Take into account how many bridesmaids you have when considering this option.
2. Fabric and color! If you have a strong feeling for taffeta, make it known. Not sure what "orange" you want? Sending your bridal party an image of your flowers or other decor can help them with the color family (if that's an option for you)
3. Be consistent!  If everyone has on floor length dresses for your formal wedding; the one bridesmaid in a short cocktail dress just may look out of place.
4. Style, style, style - Sweet heart neckline, high waist, tea length? Keep in mind figures and height when selecting.  When choosing on their own, most women will probably choose a style that works best with their body type.
5. Don't wait too long!! You want to give enough time for alterations if necessary.

You don't have to be a bridezilla BUT it's important to provide guidelines even if you are allowing your bridesmaids to choose their own dresses. (no prints, no strapless, low cleavage, length, etc).  Coordination is important for the pictures

~Enjoy the process

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

{Contest} Pin Your Dream Wedding!!

Four Seasons Hotels and Resorts have long been considered an expert in all things bridal because it has always offered couples weddings beyond compare.  With the rise of Pinterest, Four Seasons has launched a page dedicated to luxury weddings and is offering brides a chance to win a $2,500 Four Seasons Gift Card.

Here are the details:

DREAM IT!

• To enter, create one "My Four Seasons Dream Wedding" Pinterest board that shows your dress, cake decor, bouquet and more!  Don't be shy, pin everything that replicates your Dream Wedding.  If you don't have an account, visit Pinterest  (comment here and I'll send you an invite)  

PIN IT!

• Now that you're in - start pinning.  Let your creativity sore and think color!!
• Share your pins using the hashtag #LuxBride

POST IT!

• Complete and submit your pinterest board HERE.  Boards must be submitted between May 23, 2012 and June 13, 2012.  You must be a resident of US, UK or Canada to enter.

(photo source: pinterest.com/FSBridal)
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CONTEST CRITERIA:

• Log into your Pinterest account
• Follow Four Seasons Hotel and Resorts on Pinterest
• Create your board and title it "My Four Seasons Dream Wedding"
• Pin 10 or more photos from any Four Seasons website (Four Seasons Weddings Magazine, Four Seasons Magazine, Four Seasons website) and as many of your own photos as you wish *make sure the photos you pin are you own and that you have the right to share them*
• Re-pin any images from Four Seasons Hotels and Resorts Pinterest or from any Four Seasons Wedding Pinterest board and include a creative description
• Under each pin, include the hashtag #LuxBride
• There is no maximum number of pins
• FINALLY, submit your complete board and complete the contest form, including the link to your board
• Judging will be conducted by (but not limited to) Four Seasons Wedding Blog contributors
• Creativity counts!!!! Overall creativity will weigh heavily on judges' considerations: Theme, color choice, board composition.

*Full contest details listed HERE

*Use your best image as your cover photo

*Title your images with language that best describes your dream wedding

*Always use #LuxBride in your images' description

Happy Pinning and Love Without End!

Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.

Life of a Bridesmaid...

Are you always asked to be a bridesmaid and still waiting to be a bride?  Well, good news for you - bridemaid dresses have come a long way!!

"Love Without End"
Sharon Patrice Simply Perfect Peace Events, Inc. You or your brand want coverage at an upcoming event? Getting married or having a social event and need assistance? Email Me For All Your Event Planning Needs.